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The human obsession

Chocolate

Bet I know what you’ve been thinking about today.

Mmm hmm. And bet I know what you dreamed about last night.

Decadent fantasies … involving chocolate sauce … and whipped cream …

Huh? Oh, that’s all. Just decadent fantasies of chocolate sauce and whipped cream. People around the world may be talking sex with Sue Johanson, but they’re thinking about food. Constantly.

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The power of “sweat equity”

Painting the House

A few years ago, I spent several hours each week volunteering in one of the local Habitat for Humanity offices, sorting paperwork connected to the mortgage-holders’ loans. That’s where I learned about the concept of “sweat equity.”

Habitat for Humanity isn’t a charity, as most people have come to define the word—meaning it’s not an organization that simply provides help to the needy. Habitat provides a way for the needy to help themselves. In order to qualify, Habitat homeowners must make a down payment and monthly mortgage payments—and they must contribute a large amount of “sweat equity.” That means they have to put in hundreds of labor hours building not only their own house, but other Habitat houses.

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Why try your best?

We Can Do It! (Rosie the Riveter)

Several years ago I worked with a woman who confided that every morning she drove into the parking lot, then sat in her car with her head on the steering wheel trying to will herself to go into the building. That’s how much she hated her job. And knowing her supervisor, I couldn’t blame her. But once she walked into her office, she always maintained her professionalism and did her job well.

At least once in our working lives, most of us will know what it’s like to be stuck in a job we loathe. And if that’s where you are right now, you probably wake up every morning wondering why you bother to put in so much effort for people who make your life miserable, who don’t pay half what you’re worth, or who can’t tell the difference between good work and crappy work anyway.

When you feel like that, just think about Mrs. Staples.

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Should I make friends at work?

Terrel Owens/ Donavan McNabb  '04/'05 slapping hands ©Photofile

In 2004, American pro football wide receiver Terrell Owens was welcomed into the Philadelphia Eagles locker room. The new addition to the team was warmly embraced by star quarterback Donovan McNabb, and the dynamic duo led the Eagles to a conference championship and their first Super Bowl in 24 years.

It seemed the beginning of a beautiful workplace friendship, until …

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